Lifetimes.
You are only alone if you don't love yourself. The idea or concept of loneliness is a fragile one as it can take many different forms or shapes in its lifetime. Both the addition and subtraction of individuals in your life can cause feelings of loneliness due to what things they brought forth or took away from your life. The hold that some individuals can have on others can be profound in the sense that someone's influence can become detrimental to the success or fall of someone. Their life takes precedence over your own in an unhealthy arrangement. That arrangement can sometimes be summarized into one word, relationships.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not slandering or shaming relationships between two people in any sense, I'm more or less bringing light or my own personal opinion that sometimes combined energy with another individual can bring forth more feelings of loneliness than actually being alone. I'm sure we can all notice that sometimes the own personal energy we present ourselves can actually be more encouraging and reassuring than actually the energy found common through interactions with others. The idea is that you are more than capable of being enough for yourself alone, there's no need to force yourself into scenarios with other individuals for just the take of comfort. In my opinion, that's more or less unhealthy and shouldn't be the solution to a deeper lived issue of the lack of self love and individuality.
I understand, as humans we should very well be drawn to one another in healthy attachments and in proper encouragement of one another. Everyone can admit there's almost no true better feeling than finding someone you truly connect and vibe with on a higher, positive level. It's almost as if you create another world or frequency in your mind when you're around or talking to this individual and the chances or experiences of happiness with that person seem endless and life-changing. The times spent exploring and finding yourself living through their reality and the other way around feel weightless. It brings home the feeling that people are supposed to unite each other and make each other improve to a higher level. I’ve been there and we’ve all been there, it’s a feeling like no other.
Yet, we all don’t find those people often and the truth is you have to become the person you’re looking for, because you will only know the person you’re looking for when you realize who you are yourself.
Thanks for reading and as always,
Peace, Love and Positivity
-JG
